“Love makes you want to be a better man. But maybe love, real love, also give you permission to just be the man you are.”
Gone Girl, Gillian Flynn
Category: quotes
Lessons I Learned.
So damn true!
The Soul Never Forgets.
“Maybe we’ve lived a thousand lives before this and in each one of them, we’ve found each other. I know I’ve spent each life before this one searching for you – not someone like you, but you. For your soul and mine must always come together”.
The Notebook, Nicholas Sparks
In between.
It is on this situation that’s always hard. Where do I go? Is it now safe to put my foot forward? To the left? Right? Do I keep still? Is it good to just be here, in the middle just to be safe?
Yes, I think I’ll do that . Until I can trust myself to take the risk of loving again.
Status: Single.
I am sending this to the universe again. And yeah, I’ll just be happily single until the universe conspires that we meet at the right time.
It never occurred to me I’ll be in this situation. I sometimes asked myself if I am the only one, at this age, to question why. I know friends and officemates who at 30++ are still single and unattached, either by choice or not. Mine is partly by choice when I decided I give my heart a break. I gave myself two years to just play it cool and be happily single. I did – living and taking charge of myself and my life. I travelled, shopped, worked hard and minded my own business. But this year I planned to be on the field again and decided I can take on relationship risks again.
It’s almost end of the year now and not a single date. I never even had a brush of a potential bf material or worse than that, I never met anyone interesting. I often asked myself…
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The past(s) came knocking today…
Me: Busy – Work. Travel. Movie Dates. Shopping. Yoga. Dinner. Friends. Family.
Someone from the Past1. I learned a thing that someone from the past screwed it already. That’s barely five months when I even gave it until December. Karma, karma, karma. It truly works! And it works so fast I call it digital karma.
Someone from the Past2. I got an FB invite from a guy using his second account using a name I am not stupid to decipher. Hey Jerk, I know your first account where our common friends are on your list. I don’t want to think anything bad but I can’t help it. Why don’t you invite me using your legitimate account? No, this kind of invite never makes it on my FB friends list.
And my door sign will say : Close for today, try again tomorrow.
Whatever color…Whatever shape…
In the midst of an errand this morning I began to ask myself why I am there since it is a “man thing”. The thoughts are going to where I question and ask where is the man that should be doing this for me.
But right there, I snapped and told myself, “nah, you can do this girl! You don’t need a man to do this for you”.
And so I braved the morning activity with my three inch wedge walking from window to window until I was handed what I came for.
And yeah, I breezed it through. This is one of the times when you tell yourself ” I am a Wonder Woman”!
Be.Lieve.
Who will but you?
Where else but here?
When will but now?
How will if you don’t.
Because, What is there to not?
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