I am not yet married but I liked this very much after I read this from a friend’s FB post. This was her husband’s reply when she asked whether the spark is gone after their 18-year marriage.
I think this is true. To make it last, it is not more of the spark that is abrupt, surprising, and even shimmery but more of the ember, that is warm, consistent, and steady.
But maybe I am wrong since I am still not there. But I so agree to this.