the great moments in your life won’t necessarily be the things you do.  it can also be the things that happen to you.  i’m not saying you can’t take action to affect the outcome of your life.  you have to take action and you will.  but never forget that on any day you can step out of the front door and your whole life can change forever.  you see the universe has a plan and that plan is always in motion – a butterfly flaps its wings and it starts to rain.  it’s a scary thought but it is also kind of wonderful making you part of the machine constantly working, making sure you end up exactly where you’re supposed to be exactly when you’re supposed to be there – the right place at the right time. – ted mosby,  how i met your mother